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Forgiveness

Haley Warren

“If we believe terrorists are past redemption, we should just rip up like 1/2 the New Testament because it was written by one.” –Shane Claiborne

A few weeks ago, I heard a talk by Shane Claiborne. For those of you who don’t know, Shane is a peace activist who advocates for non-violence on a personal and societal level. He believes in, and promotes, forgiveness because he truly believes that, “Grace has the power to dull even the sharpest sword.”
Today I did a little experiment. I typed in “Boston Bombings” on Google, and to no surprise, all of the articles I found started by talking about the bombing suspects, and the investigation to find out who we can punish for this act. When an act of terror occurs, the media focuses all of its energy on who did the act and how those people will pay for what they’ve done. It emphasizes the type of justice that involves finding a punishment that will harm the person who did the crime as much as that person harmed others. It’s all about that person getting a fair penalty for their crime. Our justice system does not emphasize forgiveness, but rather emphasizes people paying for their mistakes.

There is a quote on a poster that I’ve seen in many places around campus. It says, “All religions believe in justice.” However, the type of justice this is referring to is not the type that we observe in our criminal justice system in the states. While our system is discriminatory and revolves around profits and punishment, the justice of faith traditions is about love and forgiveness.

Trying to have someone see how they have hurt us or someone else, or trying to control how someone will act in the future, has nothing to do with forgiveness. The World English Dictionary defines “forgive” as to free from the obligation of. Forgiveness grants the person we are forgiving freedom. It grants them the freedom that they were born with a part of their human dignity. Forgiveness is not something that should be based off of what a person will do for us in the future or how they will change. Rather, forgiveness is a gift that should be given to everyone, and that everyone should receive as part of their dignity.

As Shane Claiborne says, “All of us are better than the worst thing we’ve done.” We are all human, and everyone makes mistakes. Some of those mistakes are small, and some of those are much bigger. But at the end of the day, it really doesn’t matter; because God forgives everyone, and in our journey to be more like him, we should strive to forgive everyone as well.

By forgiving people for the wrongs they have done, we are not excusing the pain they have caused. I wish that whoever bombed the Boston marathon, had never felt the need to do so. But I also know that people cause others pain and suffering when they are in pain or are suffering. Humans hurt other humans when they don’t feel loved, or when they are craving attention. What if when violent acts occurred, we reached out those who had committed the act? What if we told them that we forgive them, and embraced them unconditionally instead of shunning them and dehumanizing them? What if we loved them regardless of how much they hurt us? How would that person react? Do you think we’d be getting to the root of what caused the problem in the first place-namely that the person didn’t feel loved? I do. We should all strive to forgive those who wrong us. Because we are all human, we all make mistakes, we are all imperfect. And regardless of our faults, God loves us, and in doing so, he calls us to love one another.

So even though forgiveness is one of the hardest things for us to do, I believe we are called to try and forgive everyone regardless of what they have done. Every person deserves to be loved, every human being is inherently good, and everyone has the potential to find redemption. Yes, forgiveness is hard, but, as Shane Claiborne says, “Every time, we can find the courage to love, when we want to hate.”

Haley Warren
Class of 2015
College of Arts and Sciences
Student Coordinator

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Remembering Today

Amal shares her dream with the group.An excerpt from John O’Donohue’s poem “For the Traveler”
“When you travel, you find yourself
Alone in a different way,
More attentive now
To the self you bring along,
Your more subtle eye watching
You abroad; and how what meets you
Touches that part of the heart
That lies low at home.”

Sometimes it feels as though the only way to be completely present in life is to travel and temporarily break-up from the current life we live. Being in a college environment where we are repeatedly asked questions regarding our plans for the future only adds to the difficulty of experiencing the present as it is given. Having to constantly think of and plan for the future, we sometimes forget to appreciate the present and all that surrounds us. We forget to travel outside our daily routines and do something that truly touches our hearts and connects us to nature and other human beings. Over the Easter weekend, I ventured outside my daily routines and spent some time having intentional conversations with friends and family and acknowledging the natural world that I live in. I had not realized how long it had been since I had paid attention to the ducks quacking or the changing colors of the clouds in the sky. I was reminded that I do not need to travel far to be present in today.

Amal Barre
Class of 2014
College of Arts and Sciences
Student Coordinator

 

 

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The Power of Loving Words

When you ask most individuals who have been to Chicago to describe their experience, many will tell you about the striking big city with Broadway productions, delicious restaurants, and fabulous shopping. However, this extravagant side of Chicago represents a very small portion of the city.

For my Spring Break Service & Justice Trip, I spent a week with the Daughters of Charity in the Marillac Center on the west side of Chicago. Much like Omaha, the significance of geography is extremely relevant. Those who grew up in the west side did not venture out into the south side of Chicago due to its overwhelming unfamiliarity, which could also be extremely dangerous. Throughout my week at the Marillac Center, I was blessed to witness the tight knit community of all the individuals involved in the social center, and I also had the opportunity to form bonds of my own. During this Spring Break Service & Justice trip, my group and I had the chance to experience a variety of projects and activities that the Marillac Center dedicates its time to.

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At the Marillac Center, the children are taught to address their problems with other people by using their words. I remember listening to a story told by a young boy who said to one of the sisters that, “They don’t do it like we do here at Marillac,” in reference to the children at his elementary school. On the playground, another student pushed him down and he responded by saying, “I don’t like it when you do that.” This bully said, “Oh well,” and pushed him down again. This shows how the Marillac center works to bring community together rather than tear it apart and to use words rather than violence. Throughout the week, I was overwhelmed with joy to see the perseverance, happiness, and love that the participants of Marillac have for each other.

Eleanor Roosevelt once said, “We gain strength, and courage, and confidence by each experience in which we really stop to look fear in the face… we must do that which we think we cannot.”

Meeting these beautiful people, you would never know what hardships they have experienced. Every person I met during my week of service was kind, lighthearted, and always had a smile on their face. Each and every one of the people I met will make me think twice before I make a complaint about small issues in my life. The smiles and kindness of all the people I met will forever be engraved in my heart, and I hope that during my week in Chicago, I was able to touch at least one person’s life as much as all the people of Marillac touched mine.

Chelsea Williams
Class of 2014
Host Site: Marillac Center, Chicago

 

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A Friendship at the Juan Diego Center

Katie Garrity

At the Juan Diego Center, I got to reunite with a woman I have been working with over the past few weeks. She ran up to me, gave me a hug, and said, “¡Mi hija! I’ve missed you!” She then proceeded to joke with me about the “europeos” (one of the many words I can’t pronounce in Spanish) and ask how classes were. I was so happy to see her that I didn’t even take the time to wonder how we became friends through our one hour of studying a week.

As we studied for the citizenship test, several questions came up about voting age and rights. This November was the first presidential election I was able to vote in, and we talked about how excited I was to vote. I looked at this woman who has been studying so hard to become a citizen so she, too, can have the right to vote. I realized what a privilege it is for me to be able to support a candidate and use my ballot to say I agree or disagree with the policies and views of the people running for office. I know in this election, the rights of the people I have worked with at the Juan Diego Center who cannot yet vote will be reflected in my choices.

I have been so privileged to get to work at the Juan Diego Center and meet some truly incredible people. Everyone has been so patient with my struggles with Spanish as we work together to learn about what it means to be a citizen of the U.S. I have felt a renewed sense of what it means to be a citizen of the United States, and it has helped me become more aware that I need to take advantage of the rights that come along with living here.

Katie Garrity
CCSJ Student Coordinator
Class of 2014

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Reshaping the Future through Sustainable Action

The sustainability Fall Break Service and Justice trip was a great experience for me.

As I walked towards our site, I looked around at my peers. They were exhausted carrying their belongings and groceries.

I thought to myself, Okay, no big deal. We are on 24th street, and we need to get up to 38th street. Okay… Take little steps at a time.

The Sustainability Group

After this trip, I looked back on my very first day and thought, So this is the life of a person who doesn’t own a car.

To be sustainable, you are trying to live as simply as possible, while at the same time caring for the environment. You are supposed to maintain balance in your life. The thought behind sustainability is that our society is taking mother nature for granted and we should change our lifestyle in order to save what resources are left for us.

One concept stood out when one of our speakers, Daniel, visited us.

Seven generations.

When faced with a problem, think of a solution that can last for seven generations.  Our advancing technology only solves one problem, and solving only one problem will lead to many cracks within that solution, creating more problems.

While solving the problems of infestation in crops by using pesticides, another problem arose, this one affecting humans. Those pesticides used are affecting the human body, thus, they create another problem for society.

By thinking outside the box for solutions that will last in the long run (7 generations vs. 5 years) we are able to save many lives, and ultimately, change the world. We should all change our lifestyles little by little to become more sustainable because we are all human beings. We need to adapt to our surroundings, and it takes baby steps in order to adjust to those changes.

This trip has made me realize that sustainability is not only about recycling, or picking up trash, or finding alternatives. Sustainability is balancing our life ‘with our environment and reshaping the future in the long run.

Jensen Lau
2015 Graduate
Host Site: Sustainability, Omaha NE

 

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Stroud Proud

The town of Stroud is generally frowned upon by Oklahomans. Before our service trip, I talked to a few friends from Oklahoma.

“Oh, you’re going to Stroud?” they would say. “I’m sorry.”

I didn’t understand why people seemed to dislike my service site so much, but I figured that maybe it had something to do with the fact that we were going there to do service in the first place. When we first got to Stroud, I started to wonder if the Stroud-haters had been right in their opinion. The town is tiny with only 2,500 people and a high poverty rate. Driving down the main street in our Creighton van, we couldn’t help but notice the similarity between the empty street and deserted towns in horror movies where something terrifying always happens. It didn’t seem like Stroud had much to offer at first glance.

But that impression didn’t last long.

Melanie and her Fall Break group at the Pink-Out Game

Our service group soon learned that in the small town of Stroud, we were celebrities. Everybody knew about the fall break service group that had been coming for years to help with Habitat, and everybody wanted to meet us.

We had different churches and families cooking us elaborate meals day after day, kindhearted individuals inviting us over to their houses for evening games, and seemingly random people baking cookies for our nearly constant consumption.

On Thursday night, we went to Stroud High School’s pink-out football game with our faces painted in support of the Tigers. We cheered so loudly that the school’s mascot came to talk to us and beg us to come to more games. Our group was recognized during halftime and thanked profusely for our willingness to spend our fall break in service. It was an amazing night and made us feel more a part of the community than we could have imagined.

During the whole trip, the people of Stroud treated us like family and taught us what it meant to accept and take care of a group of strangers. They did not know us, but they were so genuinely grateful for our small act of helping them build one little house that they were willing to do absolutely anything to make us feel welcome. I think every person on the Stroud service trip came back with a new meaning of community, thanks to that little town. I am still baffled by some people’s poor opinion of our service site, but it does not bother me so much anymore.

I know, and the eleven others on my trip know, that Stroud has something special, and we will always have a special place for Stroud in our hearts.

Melanie Kim
2015 Graduate
Major: English, Pre-Med
Host Site: Habitat for Humanity, Stroud, OK

 

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